Sexual Abuse

Sexual Abuse counselling


We offer sexual abuse counselling and have trained online counsellors specialising in sexual abuse ready to take your call who have been victims of abuse themselves.


Our sexual abuse counselling has proven to help clients rebuild their lives and allowed others to love them, which is something we all deserve, isn’t it!
If you are unsure of the first steps to take if you have or are being sexually abused then pick up the phone and call our online counsellors and together you can work out the best plan to move forward to a happier life.    

If a person is pressured to do something sexual against their will, it is a form of sexual abuse. It can range from unwanted touching or photographing to rape. It can be a fine line between two consenting adults experimenting with their sexuality and then one person feeling pressured into performing an act which is degrading or frightening. Pornography, for example, can be enjoyed by adults or may be a humiliation for one.

Sexual assault, sex with children under the age of 16, incest, rape by a stranger or inside marriage, are all crimes and matters for the police. Sex without a person’s consent due to drugs alcohol or unconsciousness is abusive.
Many women and children who have been abused know the aggressor. The abuser can be a close friend, relative or past partner. Generally, males are more likely to be assaulted by strangers, figures of authority, such as someone at school, or a relative.

Information on sexual abuse cases is largely unknown. Sufferers of abuse often blame themselves and do not report the assault. Many are groomed to trust their abuser or feel they will be punished for reporting the crime. In some cases, childhood abuse is not addressed until sexual problems emerge in adulthood.

Signs of sexual abuse
  • changes in behaviour
  • refusal to see a certain person
  • children may run away from home
  • the development of an eating disorder
  • drop in achievement at school or work
  • drug or alcohol use
  • nightmares
  • dread of a medical examination
  • pregnancy
  • attempting suicide.
Causes of sexual abuse
Research and statistics have shown that many aggressors have been the victims of abuse themselves, especially during childhood. Other research suggests that just one in eight continues the cycle of abuse. As with all types of abuse there are issues of powerlessness, control and anger which remain unresolved which means that the wishes of the abused person cannot be respected.

Effects of sexual abuse
  • fear and panic attacks
  • low self-esteem, development of depression or an eating disorder
  • problems getting aroused or pain during intercourse
  • headaches, migraines and body pains.

Medical help and treatment for sexual abuse
There are a variety of help sources available for sufferers of sexual abuse. Specialist abuse agencies for men, women and children can offer guidance and clarity for a person to start to explore this sensitive subject without pressure. Often the GP is the first port of call. Individual counselling and therapy, with suitably qualified professionals, can be effective treatments for abuse victims; family or group therapy is also appropriate. 

Talk to our professional counsellors now and let them help and support you - your not alone, we are here to help.











Hayley
Specialises in Abuse
Since joining You Call We Listen, online counselling Hayley has been helping clients with various abuse issues and has a great way of connecting to the source of the problems.
 Hayley has introduced Intuitive Counselling to our services and we have been overwhelmed with the results we are seeing with the clients.
As part of Hayley's theraphy with clients whether its traditional Counselling or Intuitive Counselling she believes it is important to be available for her clients in between scheduled sessions, as this keeps the determination of the client fresh and helps on those days where you need a little extra support but can not wait until your appointment, so as a result of your weekly counselling session you can have an add on of daily support by email or text.
How Constant Counselling works: 
Constant counselling is such a important part of clients recovery and is seriously under estimated especially for clients starting counselling.
The time inbetween counselling sessions takes all our strength to focus and stay on track with our recovery so an email, text or 5 minute phone call is vital for those times we need support to stay on track.

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